Is She the One? When You Should Pop the Question

1-Wedding_ringsCommitting to your lady can be a tough choice, especially when the divorce rate gets higher every year. After all, you don’t want to take the time and money getting married only to have it end in a few months. There’s no set amount of time that you can be with someone that will prepare you for marriage, so take a look at where you are. Do you feel like committing is a possibility? If so, then keep reading for a few more hints that it’s time to put a ring on it.

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Living Together

2-marriage1Living together before marriage is the best idea for a lot of reasons. For one thing, you can have someone help you with rent that way. Extra income is always nice. For another thing, it gives you a taste of what married life would be like. If she drives you nuts when you’re just living together, then she’d drive you off the deep end if you married her. Couples that are meant to be together really enjoy living together. It’s like having a sleepover with your best friend every night. If things don’t feel like that to you just yet, it might not be time to throw in the towel on bachelor life. Don’t rush into a marriage just because you two live together. If it’s been a while and you do feel happy living together with her, though, that’s a good sign that you two would work just as well in the long run. Start getting that proposal ready!

Picking Out Furniture

Nothing says “married” more than making joint decisions, and furniture’s a pretty big thing to go in on together. When a couple first lives together, you bring your own stuff and don’t pick out much as a pair. Furniture is a big commitment, and don’t think she hasn’t noticed. Women go nuts over those things. If you two are picking out furniture together, you’re nearly married as it is. For some, this can seem too sudden or forward. If you’re not bothered by it at all, if it seems natural, then it might be a sign that you’re ready for the next step.

This applies for all sorts of furnishings, not just couches and chairs. Even buying curtains can be a huge sign of commitment. Starting to combine all your furnishings means that you aren’t planning on going anywhere, and if that sounds pretty sweet to you, then marriage is definitely on the horizon.

Could You Exist Without Her?

This is the most important question for you to ask yourself before jumping into a marriage. You’ll (hopefully) be with her for the rest of your life, and it’s important to know that you’re making the right decision. Take some time alone, maybe take a solitary vacation and see how you feel. Do some soul searching. It sounds lame but it can really help you out if you’re on the fence. Taking time away from her will make it clear to you whether or not you can exist without her. At least, can you exist happily? It can be hard, but imagine losing her. Would it affect you forever, or would you get over it pretty quickly? If the answer is that you’d get over it quickly, then marriage might not be the best choice. The time you know you’re ready for marriage is when you start to love her and prioritize her over yourself, and know that your whole life would be worse without her. If you can’t say that with complete confidence, then you can’t say your vows and mean them. The worst thing you could do is get married without being sure that it’s the right decision to make. It wastes your time and money as well as hers, and it hurts everybody around you. Before popping that question, the best thing you can do for the both of you is be confident that you’ll work out for life.

How to Tell If She’ll Take You Home Tonight

How to Tell If She'll Take You Home Tonight

As a guy, we’re programmed to go out and get the girl. But that’s about as far as it goes when it comes to instructions on whether the girl is got or not. Women these days are just as empowered as men are about who they choose to date, or whether they’re just going to take you home and let you be hers for the night. The signals can be mixed, that’s true, but there are quite a few hints that tell you if you’re going to get lucky or not. Here’s how to tell if she’ll take you home tonight.

She Buys You a Drink

If She buys you a drink its a great sign!
If She buys you a drink its a great sign!
Oh my, how the tables have turned. The traditional take on this is that the guy approaches, buys her a drink, and then she accepts it and does one of two things. Hopefully she’ll stick around and talk long enough to get charmed. If not, she takes the drink and leaves. It’s not the nicest thing, but it happens far too often. When she steps up and asks to buy you a drink she is being majorly forward by taking on this traditional masculine role. She is clearly telling you that she wants to keep you around long enough to talk to you. It’s nice, huh?

Body Talks

Body language is always the biggest signal
Body language is always the biggest signal
Body language is always the biggest signal in regard to what she’s thinking. If her body is turned toward you and her extremities follow suit then you know that’s a good sign. Her knees are in your direction as are her arms and legs, all the more close by the fact that she’s leaning into you. She’s looking you in the face and makes plenty of eye contact while you’re together, too. Eye contact is her way of telling you that she respects you and finds you interesting. These are all positive signs that she’s into what’s going on here. And that she probably wants more.

Playful Touching

What does she do when she laughs? If she’s throwing her head back and touching your arm, you know that she’s interested. When someone wants something more, they’re going to make subtle gestures, like touching the forearms or thighs. This is a way to bridge the gap between the two of you. Your body is also going to pick up on this and respond accordingly. Try to mirror her actions and touch her lower back and legs. If you caress her forearms it’s a little bit weird, though. If she lets you do this then you’re definitely doing well here.

What Is She Saying?

Body language is always the biggest signalWhile there’s more going on in her subtext, keep in mind that what she’s saying is important too. Complimenting you on things like your eyes and smile are major signals that she finds you attractive. But not just like, attractive passing her on the street. She’s used to men saying the same things to her, so putting that into practice again takes the more dominant position in telling you that you’re sexually appealing to her.
Whoops, There Goes Her Shirt

Okay, so it’s not quite that dramatic, but when a woman accidentally on purpose shows you some skin, it’s a definite flirt tactic. She might be pulling it down to show you a tattoo or something cute on her bra, whatever it is, that’s just an excuse. She wants to show you more later on. Another popular tactic is comparing underwear or showing off a piercing. If this happens, definitely indulge by pretending to match. Pull up your shirt and say something like, “Oh I don’t have any tattoos, I just thought you’d like a show.” It doesn’t matter if it’s lame, you’re in.

The Finale

The big finale is splitting a ride at the end of the night. Getting a cab together would be odd if you weren’t planning on going home together. Why not just take it all the way and propose another drink in a comfier place?